Is it always better to be with somebody else? Does the soul follow the Condition to find and keep Life? If not, in one thousand years not for a second you're going to have a heavenly experience while being with that person. No matter if you're one of the best things in Life, many cannot be convinced to abandon the search for the "things" they crave for in the system and change.
Does your church really seek first the Kingdom or do they create their own lying world inside the big vain world? There is an inner desert to cross; the problem with "religion" is that it is a fake radical alternative for those who choose to stay, so at the same time that they embrace "fear" and uselessly employ their time and energy attempting to create a "safe" place for their minds and bodies, they seek "relief" from the emptiness in every "thing" the other servants of the ego without a "religion" are looking for. You could still anesthetize the desert if only you find your "self" surrounded by all the "wealth" in Egypt, right? And if only you find somebody to have "lawful sex" with, maybe you won't find all those rules unbearable things to follow.
Do people really stray from the Path or what actually happens there is that they compare one world with the other and the big evil one starts looking like a greater "experience"? Yeah, "religion" is a big weapon and strategy of him to boost temptation. Do they help you interpret the Parable of the Sower, warning you that temples are not really the safe Place to find a true lover? Do they teach you that some can even taste Grace for a moment, however they can only believe for a little while and cannot decide on the other Side? Do they show you that they're unable to turn Her into their Reason to live and stay the whole time, in a Way that such a time will no longer mean any "thing" other than the Thing that's really More than the drunk heart can wish?
Can your prince or princess charming build a stable for the Black Stallion? If you are not believing with all your heart, not concerned with seeking the true greater Freedom and bearing Fruit, how would you ever know? Are you going to challenge him or her with that you yourself don't have the courage to do? You see? Outside the School there's not a way to know anything for sure.
