When you're a real christian in a soul-driven relationship with someone who is not a good ground for the Word, what do you think is gonna happen when the Gestapo comes for you? People can pretend to care about the Word when they "like" you. So just like they want "you", that is, their idolatrous imagination, more than Her, you'll see them stop playing the character of brother or sister and choosing their selfish "life" over you when you show yourself unwilling to go back to the falsehood. At last, you'll realize that you were with someone who loved "life" more than you, that he or she loved a lie all that time, never really you.
For that to be possible, you'd have to be doing a similar thing: even though the Spirit is setting you free from "love", you're imagining a true self that does not exist in the Tree you've been reconnected to and maybe never will. It's like breathing your Spirit into that body with your imagination, however being unable to make the actual person within it spirit of your spirit when you talk to her. If the Potter did not make the vessel for the same purpose as you, you'd be believing in and fighting for it in vain. That's why to be guided by natural sight can be so deceiving, since the only "thing" your eyes know is that that body was made for you.
